Farewell 2010 and Thank You

For me 2010 was many things, a lesson, a love ,a best friend moving away, a party, and one of the biggest chapters of my life. I am forever greatful for the experiences, lessons, relationships, and journey this year has brought me. I learned may lessons including one major lesson in particular, that I simply love myself more and with that being said sometimes love doesn't work out. However, it's okay because there is a blessing in every lesson and I am glad I knew him at all. Three years of my life that I do not regret for one moment at all. Although love ended I had some great times and made new friends, while still having old ones be apart of my life no matter what. My best friend that I have been friends with since the fourth grade moved to NYC to pursue her dreams and while I was a bit sad, I realized how blessed I was and that she will forever be apart of my life. I couldn't be more proud to call h.e.r. my forever friend. While there were many short stories to the long chapter of 2010 I can truly say that I loved each one for the story that they were. I appreciate every memory, smile, tear, and laugh that this chapter gave me. I can only pray this next one is filled with just as much if not the same amount of happiness this one has brought. 2010 you have been good to me, THANK YOU! <3

Two Things To Learn In A Relationship

When in a relationship or entering into a relationship there are two things you should know or learn. The first thing is to agree to disagree and the second is to learn how to compromise. Why should we learn these two things? Its in learning these two things that can make or break a relationship depending on the relationship. Learning to agree to disagree is always helpful because two people aren’t always going to have the same opinion all the time and that’s okay because if we did life would be absolutely boring. Having a disagreement can make two individuals grow closer in a relationship if the situation is understood by the two individuals. While learning how to compromise is a big step because again you aren’t always going to want the same thing but if there is room for give and take things can work in any relationship. Learning to compromise and learning to agree to disagree go hand in hand and if you can do one the other one will follow. Your relationship and life will be much more pleasant, in being open to learn these two very similar but different lessons.

Many Men Many Problems

Being a woman I have to say I think that I am a GEM and should be treated like a Queen. Why is it that so many men can’t treat women right? One of my closest friends has problems with her boyfriend, as we all do and yes even me at one time I had problems with mine, now I am newly single. Why do we as women put up with what we don’t have to or better yet why can’t men just do right??? The two big questions. My friend shouldn’t have to do do do and her boyfriend doesn’t doesn’t doesn’t. She is a wonderful woman but where is that man at the man that “truly deserves” her? As women have to stand up and let people know what we are worth no matter how big the fight or how little the battle it has to be done. I just hope that men can learn the worth of a woman before it is too late. Will he or won’t he learn?

My Very First Of Very Many

With the new year approaching in just two days, I have proposed something new for myself and that is to start writing my very own blog. Although mine will never top the blog of one of my closest girlfriends with whom is oh so talented, it will be my very own “Carrie Bradshaw” blog. As I enter a new chapter into my life as a newly single girl back on the seen, I hope that I can keep things interesting with stories of my life pertaining to Life, Love, Men, and some of my best girlfriends who are some of the most absolutely beautiful girls I have ever met. On this new journey I hope I can keep you entertained, inspired and hopeful from a girl who still fights for what she believes in, stands up for herself no matter what, and still believes in true love (the kind of love that is inconvenient, consuming, can’t live without each other love) <3! I can’t wait to share my life with each of you.


This is for one of my best girlfriends Monique who said ”I can’t wait to read”…..I hope this is the first of many that you will read and will only get better from here <3! Love, the Super Model in your life