Change Starts With You

I have about seven close girlfriends in my life and I do not always get to see or talk to each one of them on a daily basis but I would like to think that my friendship with each of them are constant. Although each one of these girls are different in their on way, each of these ladies are strong and beautiful. However, I feel as though we as women sometimes forget our worth especially when we put our all into relationships with the men in our lives. So to these women even though you may be in love or eventually will find love again with the man of your dreams, I am here to tell you this....Always remember to make yourself happy first because if you are not happy you cannot succeed in making someone else happy. Be willing to work hard to make a relationship work because hard work is definitely what it takes to help any relationship grow and become wonderful. However, if a man is not willing to compromise with you then you have a slight problem because in a relationship as I have wrote before you must learn to compromise. When your boyfriend is not helpful and continuously makes it hard for you to be happy, then there is a true problem and you could probably say he is selfish. If you are in a relationship with a selfish man the do expect your happiness to some second in his life maybe even in last place depending on how selfish he is. We definitely set the standard and we are the ones determining our own happiness we just have to make sure that we make ourselves happy even if it does mean making some really hard decisions when it comes to the man in our life. Do not ever let the man in your life walk all over you because when you let him the first time he has made stomping grounds to do it again and again. You have to be the one to say this is how I want the things in my life to be and this is how they are going to be. The change starts with you and ends with you so you are in control of where the relationships in your life go.
SN:: This is a really personal blog for me because I see these beautiful women that are so close to my heart compromising all their happiness for the relationship they are in or the man they are with. You ladies are amazing and truly deserve all the wonderful things your heart desires....Do not forget your worth.