Friendships And The Seldom Breaks

Why is it that some people find it so easy to end a friendship without cause or notice. Recently one of my best girlfriends and I had a disagreement, a very minor one to say the least. I had shared my opinion with her about something and while my words could have been rephrased and may have came across a little harsh, I find that I am supposed to be honest being that I am true friend. After the disagreement she said that she no longer wanted to continue our friendship, the details were minor and the next day she said we just needed a break for awhile. When two people have a friendship its not a maybe thing, a friendship is and should be a definite thing at all times. I find it hard to believe she ever considered our friendship real in the first place if it was that easy for her to say that we shouldn't be friends anymore all because of a minor disagreement. In this day and time its hard to find a real, truthful friend that will be there no matter what the day is. To her, I love you very much and I also love our friendship even if there is a break being taken. You have been there by my side and watched from the sidelines as I went through some of the most happiest moments and most saddest moments of my life. I have also been there to witness and help you through some moments in your life as well. I am sorry if my honesty was too honest, maybe I should have been fake from the beginning so that you had a real reason to end the friendship or take a break. I have always kept it real with you because you have always kept it real with me regardless the truth and how it might have hurt, that's what friends do. I ,however, will remain true to myself and the fact that I will always be a good friend to those who I consider my friends. I am still a friend to you and will be there if you ever need a "real friend" because without a doubt in my mind our friendship is a real friendship. The babies give meaning and joy to my life that I have no right to ever expect and I thank you for still allowing them to be apart of my life regardless of our difference in opinions. They bring my life a sense of peace and its only with the peace they have brought that I have been allowed to experience the happiness that I do when I am with them. I will always be there for them even on the most chaotic days, and you also for that matter. I love you and will not totally mark out our friendship forever, for a break can only last so long, let me know when its over. I am patiently waiting so that we can watch Sex And The City together, because we are just those girls <3.