The Likings Of Someone New

When liking someone new it can be very exciting and can also be very scary. The what if's, does he or she like me too, and not knowing exactly what the other person thinks of you is the scary parts. While the exciting parts consist of getting to know someone, enjoying yourself with that person, and possibly becoming friends. Friends first makes things a lot better, it gives the opportunity for growth into something more and makes for a stronger relationship if it grows into something more. If the friendship happens to just stay a friendship, then you gained a new friend. Being able to be friends first always takes the pressure off of the tense expectations of liking someone new. While its fun to like someone, don't get so wrapped up into the liking part to where you forget how to just let things come naturally. Don't force anything let time tell and turn it into what it's going to eventually be if it be anything at all. Remember a few things enjoy yourself in the likings of someone new, enjoy the other persons company, and don't let time keep track of the experience. The experience becomes more fun if you can just relax and let go.