The Last Single Girl

On Saturday I will be attending a wedding as a date less single girl. The last three weddings I attended I caught the bouquet but still no luck, just a failed engagement that ended last fall. So by now I am thinking maybe I will be single for the rest of my life or maybe Mr. Big hasn't walked in my life yet. As I watch everyone around me in happy relationships or in love, I continue to wonder am I really the last single girl? Before I ended my last relationship in the fall I was that girl who watched everyone around me live a single life and be very happy doing so. Now almost everyone that was single at that point is now happily in a relationship. I actually became the single girl that I use to be friends with and all my friends became the not single friends that's friends with that single girl they use to be. As I am a very happy single woman in my very single life, I must say I choose to be single because the right one hasn't yet come along. My being single is certainly not because guys aren't attracted to me, its just merely the fact that I haven't found a guy that I would want to date. As the past seven months have definitely allowed me to meet some very handsome and great gentlemen, they just haven't been the one for me. Being single for the time that I have, especially after a very dramatic relationship has definitely made me fall in love with myself and love myself even more than before. I have learned that being in a relationship isn't everything its cracked up to be. I actually know people that are in relationships that would rather not be and the people not in relationships that want to be in one and when they finally are in one, they realize its not everything they thought they were missing. So until I find someone who is worth me and my time, I have absolutely no problem being the last single girl at that wedding wearing a label less dress and styling it up with some shoes.