Sometimes Relationships End

When committing ourselves to a relationship, we never really think about relationships ending but sometimes they do. The endings of the things we love so much can definitely be heartbreaking but sometimes the endings to these things can also be a relief and a journey to new happiness. Though we truly love the people we embark on these relationships with we can also resent them at times because of the strain that they put on the relationships we have with them. Granted no relationship is going to be perfect and you will fight some of the hardest battles in them, however, we also have to remember that some relationships are not worth being continuously unhappy for. When the drama and hurt become too much it may be best to just let it be over. Learning how to let what's not meant to be just be over will not only make you feel better, it can also be the best for you in the long run. Though some things end it doesn't mean that nothing good will come from those things that we once loved. Learning the lessons of the experience itself will make you a better person and also give you guidance for future relationships. Let relationships be what they will be, accept the change within them and don't be estranged. I speak from experience when I say that sometimes its better to let go than hold on because holding on to something can definitely hurt worse and break your heart more in the end. When your heart gets broken remember it is the nature of hearts to break, it is part of there job description. We as human beings will have our fair share of heartbreaks but its how we handle those heartbreaks that makes the difference.

To one of my best girlfriends whose relationship just ended, it is your time to be happy again. With this new start I hope you find all the things that brings immense joy to your heart. Some man will one day appreciate all of you and everything you have to offer. You will one day find the love that completes your life, when you find it you will know it and it will be yours to keep forever. <3